Why Overachievers Feel Like Frauds

Have you ever wondered why some of the most successful and driven people often feel like they aren't doing enough? In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of imposter syndrome—those irrational fears that make us doubt our own accomplishments.

We'll explore where these feelings come from and, most importantly, share actionable steps to combat them. Throughout the episode, I'll share insights from personal experiences as well as research to help you break free from the debilitating effects of imposter syndrome.

Stick around until the end for a practical plan of action to help you reclaim your creativity and mental clarity. Whether you're a creative, entrepreneur, or just someone grappling with self-doubt, this episode is packed with valuable tips to help you overcome those inner demons.

So hit subscribe, stay tuned, and let's move Beyond Burnout together!

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Imposter Syndrome is that irrational and unfounded fear that you'll be exposed as a phony, despite evidence to the contrary. Yes, even the best of the best experience it. 

It hits hardest the people who care deeply about their work: creatives, entrepreneurs, movers, and shakers. Do you relate?

Example time! When a new client reaches out to me, I have to fight the impulse to run or say they're better off with someone else. The rational part of my brain says, "You've got this!" But Imposter Syndrome still whispers doubts.

Imposter Syndrome doesn’t vanish in the face of logic. It sticks around, creating needless anxiety like, "You won't come up with anything new" or "That’s not good enough." It's a tough mental battle. 

It tricks us into thinking any success is just luck, not talent or hard work. It makes us brush off compliments and adds a layer of self-doubt, draining our energy.

Where does it come from? It’s that part of our brain trying (poorly) to protect us from shame and failure. If you don’t try, you can’t fail, right? But that's not living.

Childhood experiences play a role. Whether underappreciated or overly praised, both can lead to Imposter Syndrome. Lack of support or too much can do it. It’s a delicate balance.

For creatives facing burnout, Imposter Syndrome fuels self-doubt. It can appear both during successes (“You fooled them again”) and setbacks (“Told you so”). No win situation.

But there's hope! Here are some tips to slay this monster:

Tip 1: Learn the facts.

Write down your accomplishments and look at the bigger picture. What qualifies you? Seeing is believing. 

Tip 2: Talk it out.

Share your thoughts with a friend or therapist. An outside perspective can help you see your achievements and break down that imposter feeling. 

Tip 3: Celebrate your successes.

Small wins count! Stop brushing off compliments and bask in the glow of a job well done. 🏆🌟

Personally, I journal my projects and talk with my husband to fight off imposter feelings. Celebrating wins (even if it's just a little social media shoutout) helps too.

Remember, fear is a sign you're doing something worthwhile. If you're feeling a surge of Imposter Syndrome, you’re on the right track.